Change My Mind: Tops & Bottoms

Change My Mind: Tops & Bottoms

(Self-Published) · Board game · 2026
— Ludopedia — BGG 3–5 30 min
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RECOMMENDED

A vibrant and chaotic party game, perfect for groups who love a good debate fueled by laughter. The experience is purely focused on social interaction and defending controversial opinions about queer culture. It's fast, easy to learn, and ensures no one stays quiet during the session.

Highlights
  • Fast and fun debate mechanics
  • Authentic and hilarious queer themes
  • Simple rules learned in a minute
  • Great for group bonding
Keep in mind
  • Requires a talkative group
  • Might feel short for some sessions
  • Adult content not for everyone
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About the game

What you do in a play session

If you're looking for a game to spice up your game night, 'Change My Mind: Tops & Bottoms' is here to stir the pot. Forget about complex strategies or board-heavy setups; the goal here is simple: you need to defend controversial opinions and convince your friends you're right (even if your take is a bit... questionable). With 42 cards packed with queer culture topics, the game challenges you to rank what's 'slay' and what's 'flop' in life, sparking chaotic debates and endless laughter. It's the kind of game you open, learn in under a minute, and are immediately immersed in the conversation. The flow is straightforward: you draw a card, drop a 'hot take,' and have to hold your ground while everyone tries to tear your argument apart. It's a standalone game, so you don't need anything else to start, but if you already own the base game, you can mix them for extra glitter. Ideal for 3 to 5 players, it's perfect for a pre-game or a chill session with your 'chosen family.' Warm up your voice, because the point here is to talk, argue, and most importantly, not take anything too seriously. If your group enjoys debate-style games where the banter has no limits and the main goal is to see who has the sharpest (or most absurd) arguments, this is the title your table needs. It's fast, it's direct, and above all, it's an invitation to celebrate queer culture with plenty of humor and zero filters. Get ready for moments of pure, hilarious discord and find out who in your group is the master of debate and who is just there to cause chaos.

Best player count

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3–5 players
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4 OK
5 OK

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Game details

Mechanics, categories, families and credits

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Theme: LGBTQIA
Publisher (Self-Published)
Designer Josh Saleh

Frequently Asked Questions

Quick answers before you buy

6 questions
Do I need the base game to play?
Nope! It's a standalone game, but you can mix it with the base game if you want more cards.
How many players can join?
The game works perfectly with 3 to 5 players.
How long does a game last?
It's quite fast, around 30 minutes, perfect for quick rounds.
How complex is the game?
It's extremely simple. You learn the rules in under a minute and start debating right away.
Is the game suitable for kids?
No, it's aimed at an adult audience (17+) due to the themes and humor style.
How many cards are included?
The game comes with 42 queer topic cards to ensure plenty of discussion.

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